This is one of my favourite articles. I couldn’t describe it better myself. No need for becoming one. Just be you and accept the other person, and make it work together. So simple, and true. A girl can dream. Its not about needing someone in your life, its about wanting someone to be part of it.
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/isabelle-teissier/i-to-be-single-but-with-you_b_7818158.html